Wednesday, March 31, 2010

Sexual Awareness

The adults are happy throwing a child in a box, burrying them underground and saying they are protecting them from the act of sex. And yet it never seems to cross anyone's mind what the child may be doing while they're down there. They get their sexual amusement any way they can, as is nature--they might be too young to understand it, but that doesn't mean they are too young to feel it. Society still pretends that the former inevitably means the dismissal of the later. That because the child can't think (supposedly), the child can't feel. Society gets a sense of purpose by placing its children in bondage. Without it, what would they have to protect? Their investments. Society needs children to control to give it some sense of purpose, and parents, something to work for and protect so that they won't feel so insecure.

It's politics dressed up as science. It's all dogma without credibility. It's all the suppression of the natural world by adults that children are subsequently living in. It's conquering a sense of being insecure and worthless by suppressing younger human beings. It's about taking advantage of their lack of experience in an unnatural adult world to maintain power. And by breeding ignorance, they inadvertantly dig more holes for their children to step into. Culture creates child abuse. As much as a child predator is said to be taking advantage of a child's inexperienced mind, they're also taking advantage of the culture that refuses to educate that child's mind. Sex is more than "good touch" and "bad touch," and to proliferate such myths breeds ignorance, and ignorance creates child abuse.

Ignorance is danger. Awareness is safety.

If kids at younger ages were allowed education into what their sexual feelings meant, later on in life they would be able to discern between a man who they may even trust is trying to take advantage of them and a man they trust who is doing it because they wanted it as well. If children were more sexually aware, they wouldn't be as prone to sexual attacks. They would still happen, but under the current society that oppresses children's ability to decipher for themselves what they want, they are unable to see the difference between someone who wants to rape them and someone who loves them. Child molestation is by in large the outcome of the adult's need to keep children ignorant "for their own good."

It doesn't start then by throwing a child in a box, nor does it by lowering the age of consent laws, as certain groups have argued. It starts through education, and mentoring, and building up a child's sense of awareness, sexual awareness, and their abilities to make informed decisions. If children had a better ability to decide for themselves, a better sense of self awareness, and not an utter dependence on an adult figure, than they wouldn't be so prone to be manipulated into something they didn't want to do, or believing it was or abuse when it wasn't or wasn't abuse when it was. The current system has children believing anything adults tell them, but if they had been given the chance to make decisions and have a higher self awareness, they wouldn't be so easily swayed, and could give proper informed consent.

4 comments:

  1. Yeah, I completely agree with your post. Giving children sexual awareness at a young age can help detect the adults who wants to take advantage of them. Now, I don't believe that young children can give informed consents when it comes to sex, but completely repressing those feelings doesn't help them, but it makes a bit more vulnerable to the true predators out there.

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